从电影美丽人生看完美男人形象

　　AbstractWhatcanafilmtellus？Differentpeoplehavedifferentopinions。TherearecountlessfilmsdescribingtheWW，butnoneofwhichlikesthefilmLifeIsBeautifulisfullofloveinsteadofbloodyHolocaust。Inthisfilm，thewriterfindsaperfectimageofman，aperfectmanshouldnotjustbesuccessfulincareer，butpaymoreattentiontobuildingaharmoniousfamilywithfamilymembersandshouldbetherelianceandspiritualmainstayforhiswifeandtheprotectivegodforhischild。
　　Manhasbeenendowedwithmanyresponsibilitiesandtitles，butinthewriter’sopinion，familyresponsibilityshouldbethemostimportantoneandthetitleofhusbandandfathershouldbethehappiestones。
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　　摘要一部电影能告诉人们什么？这是个仁者见仁，智者见智的问题。描述二战的电影不胜枚举，但是没有哪一部电影像《美丽人生》一样让人感受到的只有浓浓的爱，而没有其它二战电影中血腥的大屠杀。在这部电影中笔者看到了一个完美男人的形象，一个完美的男人所要具备的不仅仅是事业上的成功，更重要的是和家人一起创造一个美满和谐的家庭，做妻子的依靠和精神支柱，是孩子的保护神。
　　男人被赋予了很多的责任和称谓，但是在笔者眼里，家庭责任才应该是一个男人最重要的责任，丈夫和父亲才应该是最幸福的称谓。
　　关键词完美男人；家庭；责任；爱
　　Introduction
　　Afterseeingafilm，differentpeoplehavedifferentopinions。TherearemanyfilmsdescribingtheSecondWorldWar，manyofwhichemphasizeontheinhumanityofNazi。Thosefilmsarefilledwithsanguinarysceneswhichexpresstheslaughter。Inordinarypeople’simpression，theSecondWorldWarishorriblememoryespeciallyfortheJewishpeople。Theaudiencesareconvulsedbythebloodyscenesagainandagain。
　　However，notallofthedirectorschoosethesameangle，thereisadirectorchoosingtouseanotherangletorevealtheWarandtoproduceafilmcalledLifeIsBeautiful。IthaslesstodowiththeHolocaustbutmoretodowiththehumanfeelingsandthebeautifulrelationshipbetweenahusbandandhiswife，afatherandhisson。Afterwatchingthefilm，someaudiencesmaybehappyandsomemaybesad。Butnosuchapieceofarthaseverbeforecombinedlaughterwithtearsofsadnessinandafterthemovie。ThewriterdoesnotknowwhatfeelingstheaudienceshaveafterwatchingthefilmLifeIsBeautiful，butshefeelsreallysad。AndshealsofindsthequalitiesofaperfectmanfromtheactionsoftheheroGuido。AsuccessfulimageforahusbandandfatherispresentedbyGuidoperfectly。
　　Aperfectmanshouldnotonlybesuccessfulincareer，butalsopaymoreattentiontobuildingaharmoniousfamilywithfamilymembersandshouldbetherelianceandspiritualmainstayforhiswifeandtheprotectivegodforhischild。
　　。AnatomyoftheFilmLifeIsBeautiful
　　A。TheCreativeBackgroundandMainPlotsoftheFilm
　　ThefilmLifeIsBeautifulselecteditsmaterialfromtheJewishlifeinconcentrationcampofNazi，whichwasthemostremarkablepictureintheWorldWar。
　　In1930s，inItaly，acarefreeJewishbookkeepernamedGuidostartsafairyTalelifebycourtingandmarringalovelywomanfromanearbycity。WhenGuidomovesfromthecountrytoalargeTuscantownwherehefallsinlovewithaschoolteacherDora。Butsheisalreadyengagedtoanotherguy，andGuidouseshishumorandwisdomtocourthisprincessbypoppingupatunexpectedtimes。DoraabandonsherfiancandchoosesGuido。
　　Thenthefilmjumpsaheadtothelastmonthsofthewar。GuidoismarriedtoDoraandtheyhaveasoncalledGiosue。GuidoandGiosuearesenttoaconcentrationcampbecauseoftheirJewishorigin。Dora，whodeeplyloveshishusbandandvoluntarilyfollowshim，butissenttoanotherpartofthecamp。Althoughthemenandwomenareseparatedintheconcentrationcampandachildisingreatperil。GuidofindshisspecialwaystocommunicatewithDoraandtohideGiosue。InanattempttoholdhisfamilytogetherandhelphissonsurvivethehorrorsofaJewishconcentrationcamp，GuidoimaginesthattheHolocaustisagame，andthegrandprizeforthechampionisarealtank。
　　Finally，attheendofthefilm，littleGiosuecheers：Ireallywinthetank。ThenheandhismomarerescuedbytheAmericansolider。
　　LifeIsBitistriumphant，timelessandsublime。Itmanagestoentertainandeducatetheaudienceswithitspotentcombinationofhumor，poignancy，wisdomanddignity。RobertoBenignihastakenpurehonorandturneditintoalovestorybetweenamanandawoman，betweenafatherandhisson。Asanactor，Benignimanageswithhiswiseandsimpleperformancetomaketheaudienceslaughinthetragicsituations。
　　B。TheDifferentAnglebetweentheFilmLifeisBeautifulandOtherFilmsDescribingtheJewishLivesduringtheWorldWar
　　TherearetoomanyfilmsdescribingthelivesofJewishduringtheWorldWar，inwhichSchindler’sListdirectedbyStevenSpielbergisthemostfamousone。AfterwatchingthefilmLifeIsBeautiful，theauthorfoundthatithaslesstodowiththeHolocaustandmoretodowiththehumanfeelingsandthebeautifulrelationshipbetweenahusbandandhiswife，afatherandhisson。TheHolocaustprovidestheultimatecontextthatbringsandhighlightsthestoryandaddsyetanotherdeepdimensiontothemovie。Nosuchapieceofarthaseverbeforecombinedlaughterwithtearsofsadnessinandafterthemovie。
　　Thefilmhelpsinbringingtheaudiencestoastateofmindawayfromreality，focusingonthefeelingsgeneratedbyforgettingaboutallexternaleventsanddevelopmentsofthewar。Despitethat，themoviedoesnotfailtopointoutanelementoftheNazipsychologydemonstratedbythedoctorwhowasobsessedwithriddles。LifeisreallybeautifulasyouwatchGuido’srelentlesseffortstomakealovelyexcitingexperienceoftheconcentrationcamptohisson。Yougetexhaustedjustwatchinghimgoingthroughhispainfuldayandmakeyousmileashespeakstohissonandmakeshimlaugh。
　　C。WhataFamilyShouldBe
　　Afamilybeginswithamanandawoman，eachcreatedintheGod’simage。Afamilyshouldbeaplacewhereyoucango，nomatterwhatyouhavedonewrongandstillbelovedbyyourfamilymembers。Inafamily，themanplaysthemostimportantrole，heistherelianceandspiritualmainstayforhiswifeandtheprotectivegodforhischild。
　　Aseveryoneknowsamanshouldearntosupporthisfamily。Thereisnodoubtthatfamilyshouldbeinthemostimportantpositionineveryone’smind。Thefamilyunitbeginswhenamanshallleavehisfatherandmotherandhecleavestohiswife。Thisisapresentationoftheman’scommitmenttohiswife。Thustheybecomeoneflesh。Howtwopeoplebecomeoneisagreatmysteryinlife。Whentwopeoplecreate
　　anewfamily，itmeanstheyarebornagain。Andthemarriagehelpsusunderstandhowafamilylifeshouldbe。Thecoupleshouldbeloyaltoeachother。Thehusbandserveshiswifebygivinghislifeforher。Thisdoesnotmeanhebecomesherservantandjumpathereverybeckandcall。Rather，heservesherbylovingherbeherrelianceandspiritualmainstay。Heloveshermorethanhimself。Headmireshertalentsandabilitiesandpraisesher。Notonlydoeshetellherthatsheisatreasureforhim，buthetellsotherpeoplewhatawonderfulwifehehas。
　　Tomakeyourfamilymorehappy，takealonglookatwhatispreventingyoufromhavingthisidealfamilyrelationship。Formanyfamilies，there’sjustafixedpatternofnoncommunicationwhenschedulesdifferandwatchingtelevisionabsorbsthelittletimetheymighthavetogether。
　　Andinthefamily，fathershouldbetheprotectiveGodforhischild。Afterthebirthofchildintheworld，themanplayshisroleasaprotectivegod。Nomatterwhathappens，hewouldloveandprotecthischildren。Theprodigalsonlefthishome，squanderingallhismoney，yet，wheneveryoneelsehadturnedawayfromhim，hisfatherstillwelcomedhimhomewithopen，lovingarms。
　　。TheQualitiesofPerfectMan
　　Asaperfectman，inotherwords，asuccessfulman，heshouldnotonlybesuccessfulincareer，butalsomaintainhisfamilytobehappyandharmonious。Anydefectsofthetwosidesishardtoacceptableforaperfectman。Manhasbeenendowedwithmanytitles：leaderofthesociety，managerofthecompany，sonofparents，relianceforwifeandprotectivegodforchildren。
　　A。TheWholeImageofaMan
　　Theimageofmanisindeedakindofresponsibility。Akindofresponsibilitytowardssociety，towardswifeandtowardschildren。Firstandupmost，asaman，heshouldplayanimportantroleinthesocietywhichcanbecalledsocialresponsibility。Tosomedegree，man’ssocialimageinfluenceshisdevelopmentofcareerandfuture。
　　Everybodyplaysdifferentkindsofrolesduringdifferentperiodsallthroughhislife。Anddifferentrolesenduethemwithdifferentresponsibilities。It’snodoubtthatmanisrequestedtoundertakemoreinthesociety，manyofthemareconsideredtobetheridgepoleandmainstayandshouldbereadytocontributetothecountryallthetime。Atthesametime，theyarealsothemainstayofthefamily，heshouldtakecareofparents，wifeandchildren。Soeveryonebelongstothefamilyaswellasthesociety。
　　B。Man’sSocialImageandResponsibility
　　Menareendowedwithmorepowerinthesociety，atthesametime，theyshouldfacemorepressure。Inourcountry，theimportantpositionsalmostbelongtomen，theyarekeyleadersandrepresentativesofthecountry。Inthecompanies，menalsoplayimportantroles，theyaremanagers，directorsorprincipals。Infact，responsibilityisequaltopressure。Themoreimportantpositionhehas，themorepressureheundertakes。Intraditionalthoughts，manshouldpaymoreattentiontothedevelopmentandadvancementofthesociety。
　　Howtocontributetothesociety？Notallofthemenareleadersofthecountryormanagersofthecompany。Asanordinaryman，justdoingwhathecandoisallright。Everyonehashiscertainpositionandresponsibility。Notonlyshouldtheleadersandmanagerspayattentiontothedevelopmentofthesociety，butalsoeveryoneshouldtrieshisbesttocontributetothesociety。
　　C。Man’sFamilyImageandResponsibility
　　Peoplebelongtothesociety，andmoredirectly，peoplebelongtofamily。Anintegralfamilyconsistsofamanandawoman，inotherwords，ofhusbandandwife，ofparentsandchildren。Anddifferentfamilymembersplaydifferentrolesinthefamily。Intheformersection，wehavediscussedthatthemanplaysanimportantroleinthesociety。Inthewriter’spointofview，theman’sfamilyimageandresponsibilityismoreimportanttothem。Aperfectmanshouldnotonlybesuccessfulorgreatinthe
　　society，butalsotrieshisbesttomakehisfamilymembershappy。
　　It’swellknownthatonlyonesinglepeoplecan’tcomposeafamily。Nomatterhowsuccessfulthemanisinthesociety，heisalsoafailurewithoutanintegralfamily。AperfectmanshouldpaymoreattentiontobuildingaharmoniousfamilywithfamilymembersandshouldbetherelianceandspiritualmainstayforhiswifeandtheprotectiveGodforhischild，butshouldnotjustbesuccessfulincareer。
　　Loveissupernatural，whentwopersonsfallinlovewitheachother，theywillbegintocomposeanewfamilyfortheirown。Anidealhusbandcangivehiswifethefeelingofsafetyandcredibility。Whenamanismarried，manyofhisfaultswillbeexposeddaybyday。Thehusbandshouldbecapableaswellaspractical，andatthesametimebeconsiderateforhiswife。Namely，anidealhusbandshoulddowellbothincareerandfamily。Moreover，heshouldalsobetherelianceandspiritualmainstayforhiswife。
　　Infamilyeducation，womenareconsideredtobemoreimportant。Theytakecareofthechildrenandeducatethemsincethebabiesareborn。Butinthewriter’sopinion，fathercouldnotkeepawayfromfamilyeducation。It’sreportedthatmostoftheNobelPrizewinnersareinfluencedbytheirfathersdeeplysincetheirchildhood。Theimageoffatherisconsideredtobeimportantintheformationofthechildren’spersonality。Withtheaccompanyofthefather，thechildrenwillbecomemoretoughandmorebrave。Tobeasuccessfulfatherandtheprotectivegodforthechildisalsoanessentialqualificationforaperfectman。Soasaman，heshouldpayattentiontoteachingthechildren。
　　。SomeNegativePhenomenaandTheirSolutions
　　A。WhichIsMoreImportant，FamilyorCareer？
　　Nowadays，underthefastdevelopment，theadultspaymuchattentiontotheircareerandneglectthecommunicationwithfamilymembers。Whenaskedabouttheiropinionsofcareerandfamily，peoplealwaysresponddifferently。Somepeopleconsideritmoreimportanttopursuetheircareer，whiletherearealwaysotherpeoplewhoarguethatfamilyshouldbethemostimportantoneinone’slife。
　　Itgoeswithoutanyquestionthatcareerplaysakeyroleinourlife。Inthefirstplace，careercangiveusanaimtoliveon。Withoutcareer，muchofourlivingtimewillbecertainlywasted。What’smore，careercanprovideuswithameanstoliveon。Mostofthepeoplegettheirincomefromajob。Ontheotherhand，familyisalsoanindispensablepartoflife，asmanypeoplewilladmitit。Familyisalwaysregardedasaplacewherepeoplecanescapefromtroublesinlife。Inaddition，peoplecanobtainasenseofbelongingfromfamily。Withoutit，anyonewillfeellonelyanddesperate。
　　Nowadays，itisasocietyfilledwithmoneyandpower，manypeople，especiallythemenpursuethematallcosts。Inordertogetmoremoneyanddominatingpower，manymenspendmostoftheirtimeinworkingandnotcaringabouttheirfamilymembers。Intheireyes，familycanberegardedasahotelorjustaplacetorest。Butinfact，nomatterhowrichamanis，hecanonlyliveforseveraldecades。It’ssaidthatthesignificanceofthelifeisnotmeasuredbythelengthbutthedepththatcounts。
　　Inthewriter’sopinion，careerandfamilyarenotinoppositiontoeachother。Rathertheycanbecombinedwitheachothersothatone’slifecanbecomebetterandbetter。Therefore，it’snotachoicebetweenrightandwrong，butonebetweenidealandpractical。It’snousetospendmuchmoretimeinworkinginsteadofcaringaboutfamilymembers。Nomatterhowsuccessfulamanisinthework，heisstillaloserifnothavingahappyfamily。Perfectfamilylifeisthefinalgoalforeveryone。
　　B。Marriage’sBeingNotOnlyforLove，butforBenefit
　　Howmuchmoneydoyouhave？Doyouhaveabeautifulhouse？What’sthebrandofyourcar？Thesequestionsarefamiliartousandtheyarefrequentlyusedindailylife。Nowadays，whentwopersonsfallinlovewitheachother，theyshouldpaymuchattentiontothereality。Insomeoccasions，manyloverscannotgetmarriedonlybecauseoflackingthemartialsupport。
　　Inlastgeneration，peoplegetmarriedandcreateanewfamilyjustbecauseoflove。Butpeople’sattitudetowardsloveandfamilyhaschangedgraduallywiththedevelopingofthesociety。Manypeopleholdtheideathatmoneyismuchmoreimportantinmarriagethanemotion。Everyonehashisownideatowardsmarriageandlove，weshouldnotcriticizetheiropinions。Wecannotbutadmitthatloveandmarriagecan’tlastlongwithoutthematerialsupport。Butthisdoesn’tmeanthatbenefitismoreimportantthanemotion。Peopleshouldestablishtherightattitudetowardstherelationshipbetweenloveandbenefit。
　　It’swellknownthatfamilyisthefinalarrangementforeveryone。Thebiggestdifferencebetweenhomeandhotelisthathotelisjustaplaceforpeopletorestwhilehomeisfulloflove。Sothefamilyneedsallthememberstomanageforit’snotthebusinessforonesingleperson。
　　C。TheChildren’sBecomingIndifferentandRebellious，NotWantingtoCommunicatewithParents
　　Nowadays，moreandmoreparentsfindthattheirchildrenbecomeindifferentandrebellious。Facingsuchproblems，theparentsalwaysblamethechildrenandcriticizetheteachers。Intheiropinions，theyhavespendmuchmoneyinsupportingtheireducationandtheresponsibilityfortrainingthechildrenhavebeenpassedtotheschoolsandteachers。Soifthechildrenbecomerebellious，theparentswillblametheschoolsandteachersimmediately。Mostofthemdoesn’trealizethatit’sthedefectsofthefamilyeducation。Andit’salsothedefectsofthewholeChinesefamilyeducation。Talkingaboutthedefects，wecansummarizethemasthefollowingpoints：
　　Firstly，dotingonthechildrenandneglectingtheeducationofnonintelligenceelements。
　　Tolovethechildrenistheessentialityoftheparents，butcossetingistheoriginallovecreatingbythehumanbeings。ThedotingdegreeofChineseparentstowardstheirchildrenissituatedinthefirstseveralplacesallaroundtheworld。Suchkindofloveisabnormalinthehumanbeings。Insuchcondition，theabnormallovewillbeenlargedandsuchignorancewillbechangedintochains，andfavorwillbechangedintotrap。ThestrictChineseparents’neglectingtheeducationofnonintelligenceelementisanotherterriblephenomenonbesidescosseting。Inthisaspect，accordingtotheirownthinkingmode，manyparentssnuffoutthechildren’snonintelligentelementsincludingmentality，emotion，volitionandinterest。Threeorfouryearsoldorevenearlier，childrenareforcedtolearnChinesecharacters，recitepoemsandpracticemathematics。Playingisthenatureforthechildrenwhileignoredbytheparents。Thechildren’sselfrespect，selfconfidenceandtheabilityofcreatingisdestroyedbylearningdeadknowledgeblindlyandpassivelyundertheordersoftheparents。However，childisindeedthechild，nomatterhowmanyexcusesintheirheartstohatesuchkindofteachingmode，theycouldn’tfindanyexcusetodefytheirparents。TheycouldonlyobeytheparentswhogiveintotheChinesetraditionalculture。
　　Secondly，ignoringtheestablishmentofthepersonalityofindependence。ThereisaninterestingstoryabouteducationfocusingonthedifferencesbetweenChineseandWesternfamilyeducation。WhenaChinesechildgiveshisdrawingtotheparents，hewillask：Yousee，ismypicturelikeornot？Inthesamecase，theforeignchildwillasktheirparents：Ismypicturegoodornot？Althoughthere’sonlylittledifferenceinusingseveralwords。，infactithaslargedistinction。Inthesamecondition，therearetwodifferentanswers，thentwokindsofeducationalmannersandthoughtsareobvious。
　　It’swellknownthattheChinesepeoplearewisesinceancienttimes，butit’salsowellknownthattheylacktheabilitiesofcreating，variationandcompetition。Parentsarethefirstteachersforthechildren，butiftheteachersareeducatedinsuchanabnormalway，theiroldthoughtshaven’tbeenchangedwiththedevelopmentofthesociety。Whenthetaskofeducationturnsintotheirresponsibilities，whatkindofresultthenextgenerationwillfaceisdistinct。Thechildrenhaven’tbeentrainedtoownthepersonalityofindependenceinsuchmalignantcirculation。Inthewriter’sopinion，theChinesechildrenhavepenetrativeunderstandingandfeeling，it’snotthefaultoftheparents，butthedefectofChinesefamilyeducationsystem。
　　Thirdly，fatherisfarawayfromthefamilyeducation。InChinesetraditionalculture，menareconsideredtosupportthefamily，theyarefreefromthechildren’sfamilyeducation。Inthechildhood，withoutthehelpoffather，thechildrenwillbecometimid。Butthereisanotherphenomenoninotherfamiliesthatmenreallytakepartinfamilyeducation，butthemethodsarenotadvisable。Theyholdtheideathatgoodchildrenaretrainedbythestick。Itisaterribletransmigrationthatthechildrenaretrainedbycaningandtheywillusethesamemethodstotraintheirchildrenafterbeingparents。
　　Theparentsshouldfindproblemsfromthemselvesinsteadofblamingthechildrenandteachers。Familyistheresponsibilityforeverymember，menshouldnotbefreefromfamilyeducation。Infact，fatherplaysamoreimportantroleintheformationofthechildren’spersonalities。Menhavebeenendowedwithmanycrownsintheworld，butthecrownoffathershouldbethemostimportantone。
　　D。SomeUsefulMethodsfortheFathers
　　ThewriterpaysmoreattentiontotheimageofamanasafatherandtheaudiencescanlearnsomeusefulmethodsfromtheheroGuido。TheJewishpeoplehavetheirspecialwaystotraintheirchildren。AseveryoneknowsthatJewishpeoplearethemostwisepeopleintheworld。ThepopulationofJewishpeoplesharesonly0。2ofitintheworld，however，ownsnearly20intheNobelprizewinners，whichwinsrespectfromotherpeople。Ithasdeepconnectionwiththeireducationstyle，especiallytheirfamilyeducation。FromthefilmLifeIsBeautiful，theaudiencescanlearnsomedifferentwaystoteachtheirchildren。
　　AsaJewishfather，GuidouseshisspecificwaystoeducateGiosue。Firstly，behumorous。Guidoalwaysmakeshissonlaughinthedailylife。Heknowswhatanimportantrolelaughterplaysintheirlife。BeingoptimisticisatraditionalmentalityfortheJewishpeople。Let’sfirsttalkaboutthedistinctivecharmpresentedbythehumorfromJewishpeople。Asitisknowntoall，Jewishpeoplesufferedfromcountlesscrucifixionandtribulation，beinghomelessforalongtime，theywereannealedbysuchlivingconditionsandhumorwastheuniquereturn。Toomanysufferingshadtheyundergone，longlastingtearsandmoancouldnotrelievetheirmisery，onlylaughtercanprotectthemandonlylaughtercandispelbitterness。TheJewcriestoGod，smilingontheface，butcryinginthebottomoftheirhearts。Sotheirlaughterisfilledwiththicksadnessandfullofironyandcriticismtowardslife。Theymakefunofthemselvesusingtheirownlaughter，purifyingtheirsoul，alleviatingpainandsufferings，entertainingmindandbody，pursuingdignityoflife。Nomatterhowterribletheconditionis，theJewishpeoplealwaysfindwaystomakefunofthecondition。JustlikeGuidointheconcentrationcamp，hecanmakehissonhappyallthetime。IfthewriterwerethelittleGiosue，shewouldhavetheideathatthelifeoftheconcentrationcampisjustagameforit’sfullbecauseit’sfulloffunsandinterestingthings。
　　Secondly，bewise。Inthemovie，theheroGuido’sintelligenceisobvious。WhenlittleGiosuewastiredandwantedtogiveupthecompetition，Guidojustusedseveralcleversentencestolethimstaytherevoluntarilyandhappily。Jewishpeople’sintelligenceiswellknown，theymovehereandthereanddonotsettleinafixedplace。Thankstothecontinuousmoving，theycanlearnnewknowledgefromotherpeopleandkeepthemadvancedallthetime。Jewishpeopleappreciatetheideathatwisdomismoreimportantthanknowledge，theyconsiderthepersonwhojustmastersknowledgeandlackswisdomasafoolasswhocarriesalotofbooks。InJewishpeople’sopinion，suchkindofpeopledonothaveabilitytousetheknowledgetopracticeeventhoughtheyarefullofknowledge。Ifsomeonekeepsonlearningallkindsofknowledgewhiledoesnotdigestit，itisjustlikesomeoneowningmanybookswhilenotusingthem，bothofthemarewasting。SoJewishpeopleknowthatwisdomshouldbeused。Whentheymovetoanewplace，theyjustmergethemselveswiththelocalpeopleandlearnadvancedknowledgeandtechniquesfromthem。Thehistoryoftheirmovingisjustthehistoryoftheiradvancing。Jewishpeoplehavetheabilitytochangeknowledgeintowealth，soitisnodoubtthattheycanturnupasricheverytime。Thewisdommakesthemgrowupagainandagain。Guidoknowstheimportanceoftheintelligence，anditaffectslittleGiosuestepbystep。
　　Thirdly，interestisthebestteacher。Whenthechildrenareyoung，theydonotknowtheimportanceoflearning。Onlyinterestingthingscanattracttheirattention，GuidoknowswhatGiosuelikes，sohetellsalie。HetellsGiosuethatthelifeofthe
　　concentrationcampisjustafunnygameandthewinnerwillgetarealtankasprizeafterthegame。Afterwatchingthefilm，theaudiencesmaythinkthatitistheliethatprotectslittleGiosue，butontheotherhand，wecansaythatitistheinterestthatsaveshim。SupposelittleGiosuedoesnotlikethetankandisnotinterestedinplayinggame，hewouldnottakepartinthegamewithhisfather。Interestisthebestteacher，itisjustthechildren’sdesireofsomething。Onlywhenhehasdesire，hewilltryhisbesttogetthingshelikes，andhewillfeelhappyinsteadoffeelingtired。
　　Lastbutnottheleast，thepowerofexampleisgreat。WhenJewsteachtheirchildren，theyalwaysencouragethemtosettleamodeltofollow。Theythinkthatparentsandfamilymembersarethedirectmodelsfortheirchildren，sotheypaymuchattentiontogettingonwellwitheachother。Therelationshipbetweenthehusbandandwifesetsthestageforchildrentobehaveinafamily。Ifthemothershowsrespectforherhusband，thechildrenwillrespecttheirfather。Ifthehusbandcherisheshiswife，thechildrenwillhonortheirmother。Inthemovie，GuidoshowshisdeeplovetoDora，evenintheconcentrationcamp，GuidotrieshisbesttoletDoraknowhowmuchhelovesher。Inthatcase，Giosueknowswhatanimportantrolehismomplaysinthefamily。Jewishpeoplealsoteachtheirchildrentolovetheirmother。Andtheythinkthatthegoodrelationshipbetweentheparentsisthebestexampleforthechildrentoknowtheimportanceofthefamily。
　　Conclusion
　　Thereisnodoubtthatweordinarypeoplebelongtothesociety，butmoredirectlywebelongtothefamily。Nowadays，withthedevelopmentofthesociety，peoplepaymoreattentiontothesocialimageandresponsibility，especiallyfortheman。Inmanypeople’sopinions，asuccessfulmanshouldbesuccessfulincareer。Thewriteradmitsthatapersonwhosucceedsinthecareershouldbeadmiredbyothers。Butareallyperfectmanshouldnotonlybesuccessfulincareerbutalsoownahappyfamily。
　　Inthisworld，thereisakindofoccupationwhichisroundtheclock，hewhotakespartinitwillneverretire。Heshouldworkdayandnight，leave，lazinessandrestarenotallowed。Furthermore，hewillneverbepaid，heshouldearnsalaryfromotherplacesandspendhere。Intheworld，thereisakindofcrownwhichislifelong，hewhowillneverbedeprivedsincecoroneted。However，sometimesitbringshimresponsibilityinsteadofglory。Thiskindofoccupation，thiskindofcrownisman。Aperfectmanshouldpaymoreattentiontobuildingaharmoniousfamilywithfamilymembersandheshouldbetherelianceandspiritualmainstayforhiswifeandtheprotectivegodforhischild，butshouldnotjustbesuccessfulincareer。
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